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Share each other’s burdens in prayer, acts of love, pope says
By CINDY WOODEN, Catholic News Service | Published November 21, 2013
VATICAN CITY (CNS)—Saying, “don’t worry, we aren’t taking up a collection,” Pope Francis asked people at his weekly general audience to perform an act of charity by praying for a seriously ill 18-month-old girl named NoemiBeing part of the church means sharing “spiritual goods—the sacraments, charisms and charity”—including by helping someone or praying for those in need, he said Nov. 6 at his weekly general audience.
Returning to the theme of “the communion of saints,” which he spoke about at his audience Oct. 30, Pope Francis said it not only refers to the bond existing between church members living and dead, but also refers to the bond of unity and sharing that should mark the life of Christians on earth.
The pope told the estimated 50,000 people in St. Peter’s Square that before the audience, he had met Noemi and her parents. Despite her illness, “she smiled,” he said.
“Let’s perform an act of love. We don’t know her, but she’s been baptized—she’s one of us, a Christian,” he said, leading the crowd in a moment of silence and then the recitation of the Hail Mary.
Passionist Father Ciro Benedettini, assistant director of the Vatican press office, told reporters the pope had met the baby and her parents at his residence. The family has been in the news in Italy because of their efforts to persuade doctors to allow Noemi, who has spinal muscular atrophy, to be treated with a new, largely untested and unapproved stem-cell treatment.
Solidarity in action and in prayer is an “integral part of communion among Christians,” the pope said in his audience talk. “If we live this, we are sacraments of God’s love in the world.”
The sacraments, he said, are not simply rituals. Jesus is present in them and the Holy Spirit pours out grace through them, “increasing in us a strong and joyful faith, a faith able to marvel at the wonders of God and to resist the idols of this world.”
“This is why it is important to receive Communion, to baptize babies early, to get confirmed,” he said. The sacraments increase “the presence of Christ in us, which helps us.”
“It is important, when we know we’ve sinned, to go to the sacrament of reconciliation,” he said, adding that he knows some people are afraid of the priest’s reaction. “He won’t wallop you,” the pope said. “In the sacrament, you will encounter Jesus, Jesus who will forgive you. Jesus is waiting for you there.”
As for charisms, Pope Francis described them as “attitudes, inspirations and interior promptings” that are given to an individual for the good of the whole church and increase the unity of the church.
“If a charism is used for self-affirmation,” he said, “it’s doubtful that it’s an authentic charism or that it’s being lived faithfully.”
But, the pope said, love is the key to discerning authentic charisms and to increasing Christian unity.
“Without love, no gift is useful,” he said. “Where there is no love, there is a void filled by egoism.”
At the same time, he said, “even the smallest act, when done with love, benefits all.”