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By Msgr. Noel C. Burtenshaw
Heres the case.
Mary finds that her marriage to John is about to break up. For a
number of years the going has been rough; they both have jobs, communication
between them has been only minimal. Now Mary finds that John has been
unfaithful to her.
They separate. It seems that their relationship is over. Mary
decides that she will get a lawyer and file for divorce. John, knowing that
Mary has these plans, begins to look for a divorce lawyer, too. It is then that
the troubled couple hear about David Montgomery. He is the young executive
director of the Christian Conciliation Service of Atlanta. They go and see him.
David has been through this drama before. He knows that he must
and can help. If they decide to divorce, he can assist in helping the couple
separate quietly, calmly, without bitterness. He can also provide his services
inexpensively.
In this case he tries his other skill reconciliation. He
talks understandingly to John and Mary. They see that this young man is
dedicated, prayerful and hopeful for their happiness. He recommends Christian
counseling for them. They agree to go. The journey is uphill. They continue to
go. New beginnings are arranged. Mary and John make it back together. David
Montgomery hears by letter that the couple has been reunited and are working
hard at their marriage.
Case closed.
They dont all end like that, says this handsome,
young Atlanta lawyer. But its great when some do. And theres
always hope.
Hope is this young mans business. He heads a new
organization in Atlanta that wants to bring a lot of hope to peoples
lives. Christians are called to be reconciled or at least to show their
differences in a peaceful, Christlike way. Thats where we come in.
Christian Conciliation Service of Atlanta wants to be there when healing is
needed.
David has an interesting statistic for the churches of Atlanta and
the nation. Last year, says David, there were 30,000 lawsuits
among church members in metro Atlanta. The legal costs not to mention
all the bitterness of those church battles were in excess of $120
million. We believe at Christian Conciliation Services that those funds are
needed for other ministries. We want those funds to go to those ministries
thats why we are in business.
But thats really not the full story. David Montgomery is in
business because he is a talented lawyer who loves the Lord and feels called to
serve his brothers and sisters in this innovative way.
Originally from Knoxville, David graduated with a shiny new law
degree from Yale University in 1980. Like all bright, young law prospects he
was courted by large firms from around the nation. He chose one of the giant
law offices in Atlanta. I was the usual type, I suppose, says David
with a smile. I wanted the good life, success, recognition and easy
street. I believed I was on the first rung of the ladder.
A year later that all changed. David recommitted his life to
Christ and became active in his church and in the Christian community. His
priorities and his values changed. About this time he met, and was influenced
by, another Atlanta attorney, John Tucker. John was about to start an
organization that was in place in 30 cities across the nation called Christian
Conciliation Service. Tucker was looking for an executive director. The rest is
recent history.
In the spring of 1983, says David, we got
together and now we are beginning to get off the ground.
That same year David left his law firm. His new position offered
no money, no clients, no guarantees. However, he felt a need to put his talent
and his Yale law degree to work for the Christian community. That work has
begun.
The Christian Conciliation Service is a ministry. It is an
alternative to the secular courts and has its basis in Scripture. We look
to Scripture for our charter, says David. We especially look to St.
Matthew, chapter 18, and to St. Pauls first letter to the Corinthians,
chapter 6. Both Scriptures tell us how to handle disputes. This ministry is an
effort to put it all into practice. Its a big job, but it is becoming
most effective.
What David means is that disputes to be settled are coming to his
door. One case recently involved settlement of a property dispute within
a church, says David. Part of the congregation wanted to take the
dispute to court to get a settlement. However, we were asked to intervene, a
panel was selected and a settlement was agreed upon. No civil court was
involved.
Not all cases are the total success story. We tried to
medicate a divorce situation recently, says the young lawyer, but
the separation was too difficult, there was no reunification. But after talking
to the wife and eventually to the husband, who had left the marriage, I think
both felt better and not bitter about the separation. So the Lord was at
work.
David Montgomery, John Tucker and the Christian Conciliation
Service is on its way. An ecumenical board has been set up, office space has
been leased and cases are being served. That makes us very happy,
says David. We will look for funding now from the proper foundations. Our
only charge to a client is $50. We want to be sure our ministry is available to
all who need it.
This bright, dedicated young man of the law is confident his
ministry will grow. He can be reached in Atlanta at 577-3068. The number is
beginning to ring on a constant basis. The sound is part of the good news to
David Montgomery. It means that some troubled parties are willing to put the
gospel to the test.
David Montgomery likes that. |